Mom (Keisha Lasane)
My mom gave birth to me, She loved me, she told me she loved
me, she kissed my boo boo’s, she fed me, she clothed me, she sang to me, she
read to me, she played with me, she worked so that she could take care of me
and my siblings, she took me to the park, she took me to the store to let me
get my favorite things, she did my hair pretty, she did my hair pretty, she
kept pretty clothes on me, she made sure I spent time with my family, she took
me to church, she made sure I got back and forth to school until Drugs took
over her life.
Now my mom continues to offer her love and support for me in my adult life. She is such a good grandma to my daughter and her other
grand kids.
My great Aunt Gloria –Adopted me and two of my brothers. She didn’t have children of her own but she took all 3 of us in. She
kept me involved in extra curriculum such as Church activities, girl scouts,
Delta carousel, and Eastern stars (gleaners). She got us a dog when I was in the 4th
grade. She showered us with gifts, she stay involved with school activities, she
cooked for me, she made sure we ate family style dinners, she raised me with morals and values,
she taught me to always have respect, she taught me the value of money, the
value of education. She made sure I spent time with my family, she made sure we
had everything we needed and wanted. She made sure I traveled to places I had
never been. She made sure I made friends in the neighborhood, she gave me
responsibilities around the house , she gave me encouraging advice, she set
rules that were to be followed in the home, she showed me tough love when I was
in trouble. She made sure I understood actions had consequences.
My aunt is a major part of my life, I go to her for
guidance, reassurance that I’m making the right decisions, she offers her love
and support and everything that I do.
Grandma Mont (Catherine Lasane)- Was my mother’s mother. She loved me just as my
mother did. She was always there for me. She always made me laugh, she taught
me the value of family and made sure we stayed close, She came to school
events, she was always proud of me, in her eyes I could do no wrong, in fact in
her eyes none of her grandkids could do any wrong, she always gave any body her last,
she always cooked big meals for the whole family to come over and eat, she made
strangers feel like family, she made my friends feel like they were her family,
she always wanted her family to be together, she always drove us fun places,
she introduced me to the oldies music. She took care of everyone else before
she took care of herself; she showed me that being selfish was unfair. She made
sure I was always protected and in a safe environment.
Up until my material’s grandmothers death she was a huge
part of my life. I talked to her every day, I took care of her when she was
sick, she cooked for us even when she was sick, she baby sat all of her great
grandkids even when she was sick, she always gave me money even when I didn’t
need it or ask for it.
^ Gma Hermena (holding my daughter)
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Great Grandma Hermena- Always made sure I had fun while in her care.
She made sure I always smiled and laughed. She offered caring suggestion, she
was always there to listen to my problems and always had a good solution. She
offered biblical guidance, she made sure I stayed grounded in the church. She
always fed me even when I wasn’t hungry. She always shopped for me even if it
were not a holiday. She always told me stories of how life was when she was a little
girl. She taught me how to fold and wash clothes. She always made sure I looked my best
everywhere I went. She stressed the value of education to me. She taught me to
be a giver.
Grand ma Hermena- is a major part of my life, I go to her
for guidance, reassurance that I’m making the right decisions, she offers her
love and support and everything that I do.
Reggie (Big Brother) – my brother always listens to me. He
makes sure I’m protected. He makes sure I always laugh. He always supports my
decisions. He helped me with math homework. He showed me how to play
basketball. He taught me how to be strong. He taught me how to stand up for
myself.
Reggie is a huge part of my life. I talk to him just about everyday, we laugh, we joke, we hang out, we support each other in times of need, and our daughters act like sisters.
Tiffany, You have a beautiful family! Did you get emotional when you worked on this assignment? I did. It brought tears to my eyes! I am so glad that we started out our course with a close look at families. Our families are so much a part of who we are.
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Tiffany, your family is so wonderful, i liked what you wrote about your grand mother and your great grand mother, i think grandma's contributions add a special taste to our life. you are so right about how much we learn from them the value of the family, i remember all our family gatherings were at grandma's.
ReplyDeleteThank you I was really emoptional writing this because My grandmother just passed in June of last year :(
DeleteRawana I got really emotional when writing this I was crying and I was at work lol but its ok to cry sometimes. I miss my grandmother with all I have in me but every day gets eaiser. I can picture family gatherings also at my great grandmothers house :) Family is so important.
DeleteTiffany,
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for sharing your family with us. I love how your extended family is so involved in your life. I have a large extended family and they have been a great support system for me and my family. Without their help, I don't know if I would have had the opportunity to follow my dreams and go back to college.
Family is so important and thats such a blessing that you have your family to support you as well. The love and support is motivation to keep going.
DeleteBeautiful Family! Grandmothers are great to have. They are such an inspiration to us all. Your family obviously means a lot to you and was your support system as well as my family. Great photos!
ReplyDeleteThank you and they mean the world to me :)
DeleteYou have a wonderful family. I am so glad that there are so many of us who have supportive and loving families. I am so pleased with my families undying support, love, care. My life could not be what it is without them. They are of the sum of my parts which makes me whole.
ReplyDeleteThank you I love my family and we will always be here for each other :) Your family seems close as well its a wonderful feeling to have a great close family!
DeleteTiffany,
ReplyDeletewhat a great support system you have! You are very lucky to have such strong people (women) in your life to help you and your siblings when you needed it most. Do you think all of their love and support guided you to a career in early childhood?
Thank you Danielle and I do think that all the love and support I have guided me to the field. My family loves children as well :)
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